Tuesday, October 17, 2006 11:09 PM
3 big hatres!
1. Escapists
Trying to brush things aside without facing them. By not looking into the matter, one is not accepting a fact. The fact could be some lesson worth learning. Hence, by escaping from examining the problem, problems are not solved and everyone is not happy.
2. People who do not apologize.
These people not only do not apologize when necessary but also apologize with little sincerity. On a milder mode, strangers who happen to step on ya feet, of cuz u get pissed. However, you will only get more pissed when they walked away without taking a second look at you, to check if you are ok, let alone apologizng. Well, these are the escapists too! They do not know that they need to learn a lesson of courtesy.
On a stronger tone, among friends, friendships or relationships sour as a result of not apologizing. The "face" factor deters people from saying the simple single "sorry". But I seriously dun find it so hard to make that word. If you are clearly in the wrong, admit it! You won't be killed for that right?! Another possibility for people not saying sorry would be that they never realise what went wrong and what was the reason behind an argument. Hence these people see no need for a sorry. Self centered people are like this, i guess! They always think they are right. Oh well, such people please wake up! And im pointing out to all earthling, including boyfriends in a relationship - if you are in the wrong, wake up, process things in your mind why your girlfriend gets agitated at times and decide if a sorry will be worthwhile.
Often people compare who's making the first move in saying sorry. However, the end result will be the same - "sorry" softens one heart, no matter who said it first, the other party is set into an apologetic mode too, and admits that he/she is somehow in the wrong too. Afterall, an argument is not entirely one party fault all the time. Things may turn out better cuz the roughness is even out more efficiently, rather than to go through a period of "cold war" and silence.
3. Persisten Latecomers
Dun like latecomers who arrived and pretend that nothing has happened and expecting everyone to understand and dun say a single sorry and taking everyone's understanding for granted. Even if there's a valid reason, dun show attitude! If it's cuz of some delay, then there's some problem with your time management.
Persistent latecomers are even worst. Cannot stand waiting for people who are late for 9 out of 10 occassions, especially when you have purposely appear later than stipulated time and you still find the other party late!!!! Grrrrrrrr getting out of hand. Watch your time control, and wake up your idea, people who unfortunately fell into this category!