Monday, May 09, 2005 12:50 AM
I was watching a movie on tv just now and the male lead has failed to graduate from masters studies for the past 8 years. Y did he tried for 8 years and still cmi?? Well, the answer lies behind the topic of his thesis. He has been trying to understand women and that’s his thesis topic. LOL That spurs me to think more into understanding women.
Does understanding Her means a real tough job for all Him??? OK I admit that She sometimes doesn’t mean what She speaks. But it’s all so simple that it only takes some simple cues that He can pick up along the way. Keep asking and She will tell. At least that works for me. But can’t He just take a little more effort to probe? Of cuz cant expect Him to be doing the task all the time but I’m quite sure She, being more sensitive and reactive to changes in atmosphere, is able to pick up the cues and act appropriately when the need arises.
In simple words, She just needs more TLC, probing and a listening ear. It doesn’t really matter if He can help Her solve Her problems cuz sometimes the problem is beyond salvage. She merely needs a listening ear and hears some soothing words when feeling down or upset or even angry.
Aiya.. human relationships are too complicated already. Though already an adult, it still takes a whole lot of time to fathom how things can work out. So bothersome.. Maybe I should just become a nun ar… sounds good.. hahaha