Came across this while reading a blog of my fren's fren...
Relationship always starts with friendship or lust, then to love, then to the lovely feeling of being together. As time goes by, you get so used to each other that you'll feel that the initial feeling has disappeared. Actually it has just changed its form.It will come to a point where the feeling becomes stagnant and routine, where both parties become more critical of each other and become more impatient. You'd often forget why you two got together in the first place.
There is always someone out there whom you'd feel is better then the present one. You can keep changing while you're young and dont feel like being committed. But when u get older and feel like settling down, it then depends on your luck if you can find someone who suits u as much as those u had been with together before. If not, you may be lonely for the rest of ur life or continue to be confused, going round and round in circles looking for someone else. Its a cycle which will only end when you decide to put a stop to it or when both parties finally decide to stay committed.
Love will become responsibility and commitment as time goes by. It is a fact. Dont expect to feel the lovey dovey feeling always. Its up to you to create and find the feeling back again.
Isn't all tats written above true and reflective of reality?? But how many of us are willing to admit the facts. Because u dun wanna be termed as the bitch or the jerk? You can keep changing while you're young but betrayal is kept to yourself, wont u feel the slightest guily??Dont expect to feel the lovey dovey feeling always => This is so true! But how many of us who are immersed in the love pool can really understand this and adjust yourself to believe that honey will eventually run dry and not to expect too much from our partners??? Yet again, our partners must also not take each other for granted as the relationship comes to a standstill. We cant keep the passion growing but at least we can maintain it at a comfort zone whereby both parties practice respect for each other.